I love the concept but the overall way the app runs seems unsafe/sloppy. Anyone can send you a message, regardless of a match. I don't like that option, as it's hard to filter through messages and can get oversaturated fast. What I do like about this app though is all the options for your profile/bio. Also, the ability to link you and a partners profile is a good feature. Overall this app isn't worth it for me as it is not filtered or tailored enough.
Scam. I wanted to really engage with this app so I paid. Subscriptions are unclear so I wound up paying for 2 different kinds. There was no combining of prices or refunds from the first because I bought a weekly pass then gold. I got the gold which is 49.00 a month which is insane by the way, to only be limited in what I can do on the app which shouldn't be the case after this amount of money. My access to chats stopped and they had the nerve to ask me for 10 more dollars to send a text. SCAM
After hours of likes and mostly dislikes, the app offered to help me out, and sent a bunch of likes to profiles I already rejected. I can't tell how many likes, or undo them without a paid subscription. Also, there's a "feature" that provides special matches that are proposed as the best matches, but you can't like that person unless you pay. So either the app is withholding matches unless you pay, or some profiles are paid escorts or something. Super sketchy either way.
Pay for play. If you don't pay for it, it's almost impossible to use it. You can like people for free, but unblurring a profile that liked you or messaging someone is generally behind a paywall. The app overall seems to work well, although I never once had a conversation in 3 years of casually checking it out. With pay for play being the business model, I can see how it pushes so many people away and decreases the number of people on the app. I am not against paying, as I pay for other date apps
I originally was hoping to raise this review, but they rolled out a "feature" that makes me unable to rate it anything more than 1. at any time they can choose to expand your filters without your permission, and sometimes without a popup to alert you. and what's even better is there is *no* way to turn it off. my filters are set as they are for a reason, but they will just decide to change them so they can show me more profiles instead of adding value to the user experience. not worth your time
Let me start by saying the idea is really good. Out of all the apps, this one has the most I've seen of lgbtqia+ in it. BUT, it's a cash grab. The algorithm learns your preferences within a day and makes all of those profiles curated. Curated profiles can't be liked without paying money. They also do NOT show up in discover at all uncurated. Don't waste your time. Also the filter options automatically change all the time, it's annoying.
Greedy app. Features that used to be free are now ones you have to pay $12+ for. Constantly sends annoying notifications that are irrelevant, even when the setting is turned off for certain ones, they still spam you. Deceptive in what's included with paying. It won't let me match with certain people or even like them unless I pay. I paid to try to unlock a match and it was trying to get me to pay more afterwards to unlock it, even after I already gave them what they asked for the match! Deleting
All the changes in the last year have rendered this app worthless. Free to download, Fee to Use. Almost zero functionality without a subscription, and when you do pay, they still put restrictions that require additional payments... Predatory at best. Don't waste your time. UPDATE: Now you have to pay to read the profile details of people who like your profile! What a joke!
I don't know if this is a new "feature" but blocking the ability to read a person's bio behind a paywall takes away all usefulness. Being able to read a bio is the barebones bare minimum of what you should be allowed to do. There's absolutely NO way I will match with a profile with ZERO info about the person, not even their age! Completely useless. I'd rather have the photos be blurred and the bio visible.

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Even after having multiple tech support in-app messages. STOP with allowing the app automatically changing my selected preferences for age and especially the location. If I wanted to find someone 200 miles away I would have set it up that way. QUIT changing my preference. Every time I change it back, the app immediately expands the preferences again..... And again.
The distance and age settings SUCK. If it doesn't find ppl in the range you set fast enough, it will automatically bump both age and distance up. I'm 21, I really don't want 40+ year olds constantly getting pushed to me. (nothing wrong with being 40+, just not into that) I've also gotten matched by people from hundreds of miles away when i had my distance set to 60 miles. Also, the filter to avoid poly relationships just doesn't work. I've gotten so many people in poly on my page 🥲
if I could give this app zero stars, I would. the algorithm will figure out who you would swipe right on in a day or less and then lock every one of them behind a "curated for you" paywall that is presented as a favor to the user. At the highest, priciest tier of subscription you're only able to like 3 of those profiles. There is a constant lag on the app and a bunch of tiny bugs that accumulate into one large, borderline unusable app that is counterproductive to the purpose of its existence.
Must pay for app to use, and the free version is a 1 star. Setting age and distance range does not matter. I was shown people all over the country + someone far below my set range was in the pile of people that liked me. My profile should not have even been shown to them. If the apps thinks you're a good match with someone (within my set age + location range), you have to pay in order to swipe on them. I had this for 1 day before I deleted my account.
I really dislike the setting where it auto adjusts my preferences. The preferences I set it is what I want I dont want to see people beyond my set radius and preferred age. The app needs a setting to turn off the auto adjust feature. Another thing I have noticed is the "Push" and "in-app" notifications consistently do not save what I have toggled on and off.
Just horrible overall! I'm not sure if it's the people or the app, but im constantly being matched with people I don't like and being told that they want to see my private album. I haven't gotten a single good interaction with anyone on the app and I'm the one usually carrying a conversation. There are a few bug here and there, like I'm constantly being showed the same people everytime I open the app regardless of me liking them or rejecting them, and the the menus are a little buggy when used.
I gave a review a long time ago, and the concerns I had were addressed. But recently they've rolled out a "curated profile" feature and it's actually horrendous. They algorithmically figure out who you're into and then put those people behind a paywall. For 5.99 a month you can like ONE of those profiles. It's horrendously greedy and not consensual. Not a single one of those people signed up to be a heavy handed advertisement for this app.
App is decent, however it started "automatically expanding filters" when you run out of people to swipe on. So instead of showing me people I could grab a drink with, suddenly I'm seeing 18 and 19 year olds on my feed. Also, there's "curated profiles" that the app thinks best match your interests, but you have to pay to be able to swipe on them. So use the app long enough and soon your best chance at a match is locked behind a paywall. Fix these and I'll reevaluate
The latest update hides everything but the pictures on "unblurred" profiles, making recent likes useless for unpaid users. No way to tell where they're from or their dating style or anything. I know the devs are trying to push us onto the paid version, but this makes me want to buy it even less. Especially for the price they're asking.
I'm experiencing technical difficulties. I don't know if it's the algorithm, but I'd appreciate it if it can be fixed. I received two messages from someone who liked me, when I opened the app, it deleted their profile so I can no longer message them, and the messages they sent is no longer available. I have a silver membership, and I have noticed the algorithm has been deleting matches and conversations. This is not the first time. Can you please fix?
They now require you to pay to like profiles they think you fit with. Not pay to see them, and you can't find them anytime else. Curated profiles is predatory. It is by far one of the most predatory features out there. You cannot like a curated profile without paying. Meaning a potential match is forever behind a pay wall. That is not ok.